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How To Make Yourself Squirt

Learning how to make yourself squirt can be a fun adventure in self-pleasure! It gives you the opportunity to get to know your body more intimately and maybe discover a new way to experience pleasure!

How to make yourself squirt

Being able to squirt or not doesn’t say anything about the quality or your sex life or ability to enjoy sex, but exploring whether or not your body can do it can help you learn about what brings you pleasure!

Here’s everything I’ll cover in this complete guide to squirting:

  • The quick and squirty guide to making yourself squirt
  • How to make yourself squirt: Step-by-step instructions
    • How to prepare for squirting
    • Different ways to make yourself squirt
      • G-spot stimulation
      • Clitoral stimulation
      • Dual stimulation
  • Top tips for squirting
  • What is squirting and can everyone do it?

The quick and squirty guide to making yourself squirt

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  1. Create a relaxing environment and put some towels or a waterproof sex blanket down on your bed.
  2. Empty your bladder to help you feel more at ease when it comes to squirting.
  3. Get yourself turned on by fantasising or enjoying some audio erotica or ethical porn and spend some time on sensual foreplay.
  4. Start with some gentle g-spot, clitoral, or dual stimulation to allow your arousal to build gradually.
  5. Slowly increase the intensity, paying attention to any sensations that feel like you might need to pee — warmth, tingling, or pressure, and lean into them. Try to keep your pelvic floor muscles relaxed.
  6. As you climax, push down slightly into your pelvic floor.
  7. If you don’t squirt, try exploring multiple orgasm.
  8. Whether you squirt or not, take a minute to relax and enjoy all the pleasurable sensations in your body!

Next, I’m going to take you through each step in a lot more detail to give you all the info you need about for your squirting journey! As well as covering all the different squirting techniques in detail, I’ll also share my favorite sex toys, so you can learn how to squirt with a vibrator or dildo!

How to make yourself squirt: Step-by-step instructions

Now to the fun part! Trying to squirt can be a great way to unlock new pleasure and get to know your body more intimately regardless of whether you squirt or not.

It’s also really important not to put too much pressure on yourself! Not only will it take the fun out of the experience, but it can also reduce your chances of squirting as it takes you out of the moment and distracts you from what you are feeling.

I highly recommend learning how to squirt while masturbating rather than with a partner as there is much less pressure and you really tune into the fine sensations you feel in your body.

How to prepare for squirting

1. Set the scene

Find some time to dedicate to self pleasure, when you aren’t rushed and don’t have any distractions.

Prepare your space with something to protect your bed. I can highly recommend the Liberator Fascinator waterproof throw — it has made my life so much easier! If you don’t have a waterproof blanket, grab some old towels. You’ll want to layer a few together just in case!

Grab whichever sex toys you want to use and some lubrication.

2. Empty your bladder

When you squirt, it can feel like you need to urinate, but it’s important to give into that feeling rather than hold it back like we are used to.

Emptying your bladder can help you feel more comfortable letting go and leaning into that sensation.

The liquid you release when you squirt does come from the bladder, but a 2015 study showed that it enters the bladder just before it happens, so emptying it ensures it’s only this liquid that is released.

3. Spend some time getting aroused

The more aroused you are, the easier it will be, so really indulge in all the things that turn you on. Here are some suggestions to get you going:

  • Explore your whole body with sensual touch and take time stimulating your most sensitive erogenous zones.
  • Listen to some erotic audio stories.
  • Watch some ethical, feminist porn — has a great selection!
  • Give yourself a sensual vaginal massage.

Different ways to make yourself squirt

While g-spot stimulation seems to be the most common and well known squirting trigger, it isn’t the only one! Some people can also squirt from clitoral stimulation or a a combination of the two, so I’ll go over the different ways below.

Finding out what does it for you is going to be trial and error, but that just means you get to masturbate more and that’s a win-win in my books!

Corrine shares her squirting technique on OMGYes

OMGYes did the research on Squirting and found that vulva owners use a range of techniques to squirt with G-spot stimulation being the most popular but clitoral and anal stimulation coming up as well!

Their course has a whole module on squirting including real life demonstrations from women showing the techniques they use. Plus, a section on how to bring those techniques into the bedroom with a partner.

Next up, I’ll take you step-by-step through three different ways you can make yourself squirt!

How to make yourself squirt with G-spot stimulation

Many vulva owners find that intense G-spot stimulation can lead to squirting. This could be due to the G-spot’s location near to the bladder and urethral sponge.

Rather than being a distinct thing in and of itself, it’s highly likely that the G-spot feels good when stimulated because you are actually stimulating the internal clitoral structure. This also means that everyone’s G-spot is in a slightly different area, so you will need to take a little time to find yours.

1. Find your G-spot

In general, the G-spot is found an inch or two inside the vagina on the front wall. Take a well lubricated finger or two a curved sex toy and start exploring the front wall of your vagina for a spot that feels particularly sensitive or gives you the feeling you need to pee. Don’t be afraid of this, it’s actually a good indicator that you are in the right place.

If you need a little more guidance, check out this complete guide on how to find your G-spot.

2. Explore different movements and pressure

Most people find they need relatively strong stimulation to squirt, so you can try applying a little pressure but only as feels good. You can try stroking in a come hither motion, massaging, tapping, or circling.

Discover different squirting techniques Lola Jean, who actually holds the world record for the most amount squirted, so she really knows her stuff!

The Beducated Squirting Course covers everything you could ever want to know about squirting, including anatomy lessons and demonstrations of different techniques!

3. Take your time

Some people find that they need a lot of time and stimulation to squirt so really try to enjoy the ride and pay attention to all the sensations you feel along the way! You might find that as you get more aroused, you crave a little more pressure and speed, but just follow what feels good for you!

Using a firm G-spot dildo can make it easier to get the firm stimulation you need without your wrist cramping up.

4. The climax

As you feel your orgasm building, you might also feel the need to pee and this is actually a very good sign and could signal you are ready to squirt. Instead of tensing up and holding it in as you usually would, you can start paying attention to how that actually feels.

If you want to know more about the different squirting triggers, check out School of Squirt’s Squirting Triggers 2.0 course! The course uses some pretty vigorous techniques and is the language is a little misogynistic in places, so if you prefer something gentler, check out Beducated or OMGYes!

You can read Edwina’s full review of Squirting Triggers 2.0 to see if it’s the right course for you!

Try to notice what specific sensations you feel in your body and lean into them and let them build. When you feel on the verge of peeing, try to relax your pelvic floor or even push down slightly.

5. Multiple magic

If you climax but don’t experience squirting, you can also try to continue stimulating yourself as some people only squirt after they have already climaxed.

If you are too sensitive after you’ve already orgasmed, you can either take a little break and stimulate some other areas of your body until you are ready to go again or just enjoy the post-orgasmic bliss and call it a day!

The best tools G-spot tools for making yourself squirt

The best G-spot toys will have either a bulbed tip, a curved tip or both to help direct the stimulation to front wall of your vagina without straining your wrists!

Rigid materials like firm silicone, stainless steel, or glass are also great for squirting as they can provide more intense, deeper stimulation.

Here are my favorite G-spot vibrators for exploring squirting…

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How to Squirt with a Vibrator | Beginner’s Guide

How to solo squirt? Can all women squirting? How to make yourself squirt with vibrator? Sex is fun, exploring and knowing every part of your body, and your partner’s body, by heart.

There are a lot of things that are to discover and learn about your body, and the only way to do so is through practice.

If you’ve ever heard that not every women squirting, then I’m here to debunk that myth. All women can squirt; all you have to do is pick your favorite sex toy, relax, build up enough tension and sexual anticipation, and then practice, practice, practice.

How to squirt using a vibrator?

It shouldn’t be that difficult to practice. After all, it’s all about pleasure. To make things less intimidating, I will give you some tips and tricks about how to squirt with a vibrator.

In addition, we will also discuss whats squirting is and why it happens, so you can feel completely at ease on the journey of pleasure you will soon embark on.

What Is Squirting and Why It Happens?

How to squirt using a vibrator?

You may have heard of squirting or seen it in movies while looking for something to build tension so you can have some exciting solo times. As you obviously weren’t looking for research, I can tell you that no two squirts are alike.

With this in mind, I can say that there isn’t a clear receipt that can work for everyone when it comes to squirting, even if there are some straightforward tips that can definitely help in this mission. But first, let’s take a closer look at what’s squirting.

Squirting, also known as female ejaculation (though this isn’t really accurate), is the expulsion of a colorless and odorless fluid from the urethra, usually during the climax. There are also instances where a person squirts without reaching a climax.

Even if it doesn’t sound particularly exciting, squirt is actually a mixture of pee and female ejaculation produced by the Skene’s glands. These glands are located within the urethral sponge on each side of the urethra and secrete a lubricating substance.

Because we are all different, the squirt and its composition can differ from woman to woman, so it may contain slightly more or slightly less pee. It all comes down to biology.

One of the defining features of squirting is that it has a rapid stream and provides a powerful sexual release that, in terms of how it feels, cannot be compared to anything else. Although it is frowned upon, squirting is a completely natural process.

How to Squirt with a Vibrator – From Setting the Mood to Making It Happen.

First and foremost, it is all about the mood. You must be fully relaxed and willing to go with the flow in order to achieve that intense state of mind in which nothing matters more than how you feel right now.

You can light some candles, listen to sensual music, turn off your phone, and give yourself some time away from the daily hustle.

Also, even if it can be a mood-breaker, place a towel on the bed before beginning. You will save time by not having to clean everything after. Because, as you are probably aware, squirting can be quite messy.

After that, apply your preferred lubricant and find a comfortable position. Squirting can be achieved through clit stimulation for some women, while for others it can be about the G-spot massage. I believe that a combination of the two is preferable so that you can feel every stimulus while preparing for something incredible.

When you feel you’re getting close to climax, try stopping and starting again. This way, you can build up some strong anticipation and sexual tension, so that when you finally allow yourself to reach climax, everything will be more powerful, and you will hopefully solo squirt.

If you don’t squirt, don’t worry; it just means you need to practice more, which shouldn’t be a problem. Because it is a pleasurable activity, motivation should be easy to find.

The Right Vibrator

First of all, there is no such thing as a perfect squirting vibrator because the same things and incentives do not work for all women. How to make yourself squirt with vibrator? As I already mentioned, some people enjoy clit stimulation, while others prefer G-spot massage.

The good news is that Homi has a wide range of options for clit sucking vibrators that can do both and more, allowing you to experiment and discover what works best for you.

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The design of the wearable thrusting dildo is similar to that of a safe material liquid silicone realistic dildos with real blood vessel texture and skin-like material, wearable clitoral vibrator and insertion retraction bring double stimulation.

  • 2-in-1 sex toy;
  • 9 vibration patterns;
  • 9 telescopic modes;
  • Body-safe(Liquid Silicone);
  • Waterproof;
  • APP control.

Homi Clit Sucking Vibrator 2 In 1 Bendable Vibrator

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Although this clitoral vibrator is excellent on its own, you may also use one with a partner. To try to have a more strong orgasm during vaginal sex, you can use one to stimulate your clitoris. I think I don’t have to explain how to use a sex toy. Let me explain its features.

  • 2-in-1 sex toy;
  • 10 vibrating modes;
  • 5 sucking modes;
  • Body-safe(Silicone);
  • Waterproof.

Homi Wearable Couples Vibrator

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Take your lovemaking to the next level with Homi, thewearable vibration. Designed to be worn during sex, Homi provides intense and best wearable vibrator that can be enjoyed by both partners. Rechargeable and waterproof, Homi will always be ready when you are.

  • 2-in-1;
  • 10 vibrating modes;
  • High-quality materials;
  • Remote controlled;
  • Waterproof.

Wrapping up!

Not every women squirting the same way. For some, it can take a lot of practice, while for others can happen right away. You can start by using the tips & tricks listed above as well as vibrators with dual stimulation to increase your chances of squirting, but it all comes down to practice and letting yourself go.