The words “forced orgasm” don’t seem to go together. Yet, this practice exists, and while it may appear to be contrary at first glance, everything is completely consensual.
In fact, forced orgasm refers to a BDSM activity that, at its core, is all about pleasure.
Yet, the same term “forced orgasm” is also used when referring to sexual assault. In this second situation, unwanted pleasure or even orgasm arises from non-consensual and unsolicited sexual stimulation. In this article, we will only discuss forced orgasm as a BDSM practice since, while sex has few rules. A fundamental one is that everything must be consensual. Meaning that all parties involved must agree to what is going on.
Forced orgasm can provide intense delights and can be integrated into many other sexual practices and can even incorporate sex toys like clit sucking vibrators.
What’s the Deal With Forced Orgasm?
If you’re wondering what’s the deal with forced orgasm, the answer is actually rather simple. Like in every other BDSM practice, there is a dominant and a submissive in this one as well.
The dominant person seeks to offer the submissive orgasms. In most circumstances, ropes or handcuffs are also used to prevent the person experiencing the orgasm from resisting the stimulation.
Yet, because this is a perfectly consensual practice. The partners agree on a safe word to use when one of them wants the other to stop.
In this practice, the dominant might also use powerful vibrators, like the cheap sex toys from the Homisextoys collection. On the submissive to guarantee that the pleasure felt is overwhelming. In this manner, the submissive can reach orgasm (or multiple orgasms!).
How Does It Feel?
The way a forced orgasm feels varies greatly from person to person due to differences in sexual tastes as well as tolerance for both pleasure and pain.
When it comes to submissive women, the forced orgasm actually converts into a series of orgasms that occur one after the other. When there are several orgasms that seem to never stop, the pain might come into play. So it is critical to set up a safe word before beginning any BDSM-type sexual activity.
Several orgasms are not necessary on the table for guys, but rather these experiences translate into a delayed climax. If the dominant partner continues to stimulate the penis after the male orgasm. It might result in post-orgasm torture, which is not enjoyable. Here is where the power of a safe word comes into play once more.
Forced orgasm, despite its name and the non-consensual situation to which it might also refer, is, in reality, a consensual BDSM activity with the primary goal of pleasure.
In contrast to typical orgasms, in this practice, the submissive participant usually has numerous orgasms with no gap in between or another form of denied orgasm. The practice can swiftly go from pleasure to pain, which is why it’s critical for partners to communicate so that the moment is actually memorable and full of delight.