Long-Distance BDSM relationship, it takes a lot to maintain a successful relationship, which is especially challenging for BDSM relationships
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It takes a lot to maintain a successful relationship, especially for couples who are in long-distance arrangements. This can be especially challenging for BDSM relationships. In LDRs, there are many things to consider: time, attention, responsibility, and so forth. You may also be unsure of whether you are giving your partner enough love and how to express those emotions from a distance. Differences in time zones and daily schedules can make it difficult.
Despite these obstacles, it is possible to have a healthy and flourishing relationship. The key is to be open to trying different things to help the relationship grow.
The good news is you don’t have to do it alone. Not only do you have your partner, but you can also rely on these tips that we’re going to share with you.
Here are five simple ideas you can try for your long-distance BDSM play to work.
Who’s who in your long-distance BDSM relationship?
BDSM long distance is more like a play in the real world where one or both live out his/her or a different character. Characters are dominant, submissive, sadist, and masochist. However, we’ll focus on submissiveness and dominants.
Who is the submissive partner?
When we say submissive, we are referring to someone who has the characteristic of being willing to submit to your partner.
But it does not mean that you were under your partner, nor that you love your partner more. Each one of them does not mean that you are under your partner, nor that you love the other person more. Each person of us has a unique personality. You, as a sub, show your love by allowing people to love you.
What’s the goal?
The fundamental goal of a submissive partner in a relationship is to offer your sub-partners a healthy submissive relationship. So, if you are Dom (dominant) in a relationship, you should ask for your sub-partner’s consent.
Communication: Dom or Sub
Still, communication will be a great tool. Dom or sub, you must keep on talking ideas out. This shows that you respect your partner even if they are submissive to you.
Who is the dominant partner?
On the other hand, if you are dominant in the relationship, you are goal-oriented, attentive, and decisive in everything you do, and you carry that attitude in your relationship.
From the point of view of other people, you may appear to be controlling or impatient. But your partner will likely recognize that it is your normal course. You want everything to go your way so that you can make a decision and proceed. However, communication of a certain amount must be maintained.
Examples of Doms
Dom includes a person who likes to feel free and control masturbation sessions or orders their sub to do things with their body. If you like to order your partner to send you photos or videos, or naughty phone calls, you are a dom. Also, Dom tends to ask the other person to wear clothes or app-controlled sex toys to kink things up or simply write things for your long-distance play.
Trust in BDSM
Like relationships and LDRs, BDSM requires trust. BDSM long distance involves activities that might require a lot from one or another.
If you are a submissive person, you trust your dog so much. You trust them that much. And there’s nothing wrong with that.
If you are a dom, You know your sub-partners trust you. Trust includes trust in controlling your relationship and the body. That’s why you have to be responsible for taking leads.
For example, you find yourself dominating your subordinate partner in bed using a butt plug or making her wear nipple clamps or making her hold those orgasms, or simply touch the body. As such, it’s the most incredible thing you can do for your partner if they are submissive.
Trust: Dom or Sub
If you want to make your BDSM long-distance relationship work, both must acknowledge themselves and the trust entrusted to them. You must acknowledge who you are in the relationship.
Also, you must respect your partner’s personality and your differences before doing the ideas I included for you in the next paragraph.
The following list of activities includes sexy stuff like masturbating together and asking for permission to orgasm. There are also non-sexual activities that can help you feel closer to your partner by being just a click away. Let’s kick in with:
Always Update Your Dom/Sub Partner
First thing first, even if you sub or dom, you should always update your partner by informing them how your day goes.
Write them a good morning and good night message or a video that says “Good morning. I’ll be busy today because I’ll be doing this and that” In that way, your partner will not be worried about you all day. Also, a quick phone call or video call will be a good idea. It will assure them.
However, it is also advisable for long-distance couples to give a certain period for phone calls or any means of communication daily to their partner.
I understand that if you say, “Oh, that’s easy peasy,” but, believe me, things happen. If you have been in a long-distance BDSM relationship for so long, there are times when communication will be hard because of your busy schedule. And that will become the beginning of your quarrel, and we don’t want that to happen.
Since you are in a long-distance relationship, you have different lives and different time zones, it is understandable that sometimes, you can’t be responsive all the time since you don’t have to stick with your phone every minute/hour to make your partner secure.
Every day, all it takes is less than one minute to keep your partner updated. Writing down a few words could save you both from issues. You will find that your relationship with your partner will be much easier if you do this.