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The Future of Vibrator Technology

As vibrator technology continues to evolve, it is clear that the future of these devices will be shaped by several key trends. In this section, we will explore some of the most exciting developments in the field of vibrator technology and consider what they might mean for the future of the industry.

Greater Customization and Personalization

One of the most significant trends in vibrator technology is the move toward greater customization and personalization. Many of the latest devices feature advanced settings that allow users to adjust the intensity, pattern, and even the shape of the vibration to suit their individual preferences. As technology continues to improve, it is likely that we will see even more sophisticated customization options becoming available as manufacturers seek to cater to the diverse needs and desires of their customers.

Integration with Other Technologies

Another important trend in the world of vibrator technology is the increasing integration of these devices with other technologies. For example, some vibrators now come equipped with Bluetooth or WiFi connectivity, allowing users to control their device remotely or even sync it with music or other media. Similarly, we are also seeing more and more vibrators that incorporate sensors or other smart features, allowing them to respond dynamically to changes in the user’s body or environment. This kind of integration opens up new possibilities for exploration and experimentation and could lead to a whole new generation of connected, interactive vibrators.

Advances in Materials and Design

As vibrator technology continues to evolve, we are also seeing exciting developments in the materials and design of these devices. In recent years, there has been a growing trend towards more sustainable, eco-friendly materials. Such as medical-grade silicone, and towards more ergonomic, user-friendly designs. This has resulted in a new wave of vibrators that are not only more environmentally conscious but also more comfortable, durable, and effective than ever before.

Greater Accessibility and Inclusivity

Finally, as vibrator technology continues to mature, we are seeing a growing emphasis on accessibility and inclusivity. Manufacturers are increasingly designing their devices to cater to a wider range of bodies, needs, and preferences, with features such as adjustable sizes, shapes, and vibration patterns. Similarly, there is a growing awareness of the importance of accessibility features for users with disabilities or mobility issues, and we are seeing more and more vibrators that incorporate these features, such as easy-to-use controls, voice activation, or compatibility with assistive technologies.

Overall, it is clear that the future of vibrator technology is bright, with exciting new innovations and developments on the horizon. Whether you are a seasoned vibrator user or a newcomer to the world of sexual technology, there has never been a better time to explore the many exciting possibilities that these devices have to offer.

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How To Make Yourself Squirt

Learning how to make yourself squirt can be a fun adventure in self-pleasure! It gives you the opportunity to get to know your body more intimately and maybe discover a new way to experience pleasure!

How to make yourself squirt

Being able to squirt or not doesn’t say anything about the quality or your sex life or ability to enjoy sex, but exploring whether or not your body can do it can help you learn about what brings you pleasure!

Here’s everything I’ll cover in this complete guide to squirting:

  • The quick and squirty guide to making yourself squirt
  • How to make yourself squirt: Step-by-step instructions
    • How to prepare for squirting
    • Different ways to make yourself squirt
      • G-spot stimulation
      • Clitoral stimulation
      • Dual stimulation
  • Top tips for squirting
  • What is squirting and can everyone do it?

The quick and squirty guide to making yourself squirt

Running man fingering technique
  1. Create a relaxing environment and put some towels or a waterproof sex blanket down on your bed.
  2. Empty your bladder to help you feel more at ease when it comes to squirting.
  3. Get yourself turned on by fantasising or enjoying some audio erotica or ethical porn and spend some time on sensual foreplay.
  4. Start with some gentle g-spot, clitoral, or dual stimulation to allow your arousal to build gradually.
  5. Slowly increase the intensity, paying attention to any sensations that feel like you might need to pee — warmth, tingling, or pressure, and lean into them. Try to keep your pelvic floor muscles relaxed.
  6. As you climax, push down slightly into your pelvic floor.
  7. If you don’t squirt, try exploring multiple orgasm.
  8. Whether you squirt or not, take a minute to relax and enjoy all the pleasurable sensations in your body!

Next, I’m going to take you through each step in a lot more detail to give you all the info you need about for your squirting journey! As well as covering all the different squirting techniques in detail, I’ll also share my favorite sex toys, so you can learn how to squirt with a vibrator or dildo!

How to make yourself squirt: Step-by-step instructions

Now to the fun part! Trying to squirt can be a great way to unlock new pleasure and get to know your body more intimately regardless of whether you squirt or not.

It’s also really important not to put too much pressure on yourself! Not only will it take the fun out of the experience, but it can also reduce your chances of squirting as it takes you out of the moment and distracts you from what you are feeling.

I highly recommend learning how to squirt while masturbating rather than with a partner as there is much less pressure and you really tune into the fine sensations you feel in your body.

How to prepare for squirting

1. Set the scene

Find some time to dedicate to self pleasure, when you aren’t rushed and don’t have any distractions.

Prepare your space with something to protect your bed. I can highly recommend the Liberator Fascinator waterproof throw — it has made my life so much easier! If you don’t have a waterproof blanket, grab some old towels. You’ll want to layer a few together just in case!

Grab whichever sex toys you want to use and some lubrication.

2. Empty your bladder

When you squirt, it can feel like you need to urinate, but it’s important to give into that feeling rather than hold it back like we are used to.

Emptying your bladder can help you feel more comfortable letting go and leaning into that sensation.

The liquid you release when you squirt does come from the bladder, but a 2015 study showed that it enters the bladder just before it happens, so emptying it ensures it’s only this liquid that is released.

3. Spend some time getting aroused

The more aroused you are, the easier it will be, so really indulge in all the things that turn you on. Here are some suggestions to get you going:

  • Explore your whole body with sensual touch and take time stimulating your most sensitive erogenous zones.
  • Listen to some erotic audio stories.
  • Watch some ethical, feminist porn — has a great selection!
  • Give yourself a sensual vaginal massage.

Different ways to make yourself squirt

While g-spot stimulation seems to be the most common and well known squirting trigger, it isn’t the only one! Some people can also squirt from clitoral stimulation or a a combination of the two, so I’ll go over the different ways below.

Finding out what does it for you is going to be trial and error, but that just means you get to masturbate more and that’s a win-win in my books!

Corrine shares her squirting technique on OMGYes

OMGYes did the research on Squirting and found that vulva owners use a range of techniques to squirt with G-spot stimulation being the most popular but clitoral and anal stimulation coming up as well!

Their course has a whole module on squirting including real life demonstrations from women showing the techniques they use. Plus, a section on how to bring those techniques into the bedroom with a partner.

Next up, I’ll take you step-by-step through three different ways you can make yourself squirt!

How to make yourself squirt with G-spot stimulation

Many vulva owners find that intense G-spot stimulation can lead to squirting. This could be due to the G-spot’s location near to the bladder and urethral sponge.

Rather than being a distinct thing in and of itself, it’s highly likely that the G-spot feels good when stimulated because you are actually stimulating the internal clitoral structure. This also means that everyone’s G-spot is in a slightly different area, so you will need to take a little time to find yours.

1. Find your G-spot

In general, the G-spot is found an inch or two inside the vagina on the front wall. Take a well lubricated finger or two a curved sex toy and start exploring the front wall of your vagina for a spot that feels particularly sensitive or gives you the feeling you need to pee. Don’t be afraid of this, it’s actually a good indicator that you are in the right place.

If you need a little more guidance, check out this complete guide on how to find your G-spot.

2. Explore different movements and pressure

Most people find they need relatively strong stimulation to squirt, so you can try applying a little pressure but only as feels good. You can try stroking in a come hither motion, massaging, tapping, or circling.

Discover different squirting techniques Lola Jean, who actually holds the world record for the most amount squirted, so she really knows her stuff!

The Beducated Squirting Course covers everything you could ever want to know about squirting, including anatomy lessons and demonstrations of different techniques!

3. Take your time

Some people find that they need a lot of time and stimulation to squirt so really try to enjoy the ride and pay attention to all the sensations you feel along the way! You might find that as you get more aroused, you crave a little more pressure and speed, but just follow what feels good for you!

Using a firm G-spot dildo can make it easier to get the firm stimulation you need without your wrist cramping up.

4. The climax

As you feel your orgasm building, you might also feel the need to pee and this is actually a very good sign and could signal you are ready to squirt. Instead of tensing up and holding it in as you usually would, you can start paying attention to how that actually feels.

If you want to know more about the different squirting triggers, check out School of Squirt’s Squirting Triggers 2.0 course! The course uses some pretty vigorous techniques and is the language is a little misogynistic in places, so if you prefer something gentler, check out Beducated or OMGYes!

You can read Edwina’s full review of Squirting Triggers 2.0 to see if it’s the right course for you!

Try to notice what specific sensations you feel in your body and lean into them and let them build. When you feel on the verge of peeing, try to relax your pelvic floor or even push down slightly.

5. Multiple magic

If you climax but don’t experience squirting, you can also try to continue stimulating yourself as some people only squirt after they have already climaxed.

If you are too sensitive after you’ve already orgasmed, you can either take a little break and stimulate some other areas of your body until you are ready to go again or just enjoy the post-orgasmic bliss and call it a day!

The best tools G-spot tools for making yourself squirt

The best G-spot toys will have either a bulbed tip, a curved tip or both to help direct the stimulation to front wall of your vagina without straining your wrists!

Rigid materials like firm silicone, stainless steel, or glass are also great for squirting as they can provide more intense, deeper stimulation.

Here are my favorite G-spot vibrators for exploring squirting…

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The Best Ways to Eat Pussy

What works, what hurts and how to make her cum – great tips from someone with a vulva.

Knowing the best way to eat pussy is a skill all vulva lovers should have.

The Best Ways to Eat Pussy

So, whether you’re a beginner or someone with experience, I’ve gathered the best tips, tricks and techniques for pleasuring a pussy.

That way, you can learn from the beginning or add to your mad oral sex skills.

Plus, I’ve added quotes from real vulva owners with different likes and dislikes, so you can see how each partner may differ.

Best Ways to Eat Pussy / Oral Sex Skills– The Quickie

  • Pleasuring her orally is a great prelude to sex as well as being the easiest way to make her cum.
  • The female genitalia are unique, complicated and teaming with nerve endings. As a matter of fact, the clitoris alone has more than 8,000 nerve endings in the tip alone.
  • Eating pussy starts long before her clothing comes off, as arousal begins with her mind.
  • Be sure and tease her entire body before diving in and touching her clitoris.
  • Once you do begin pleasuring her orally, use your tongue – softly, pointed and flat – as well as your lips.
  • Pussies smell no differently than your junk, and she’s more concerned about that than you are!
  • Each partner will respond differently to each type of touch, lick and suck you try. Therefore, be sure and pay attention to her cues.
  • The best positions for eating pussy are Missionary, Queening, 69 and others.
  • Most importantly, focus on her pleasure, rather than the end game.

Specific tips and techniques you can use:

  1. Clitoral stimulation:
    • Use your tongue in circular motions around the clitoris.
    • Gently suck or flick the clitoral hood.
    • Experiment with different levels of pressure and speed.
    • Create a rhythmic pattern that your partner enjoys.
  2. G-spot stimulation:
    • Insert one or two fingers into the vagina and curl them upward toward the front vaginal wall.
    • Apply firm but gentle pressure and use a “come hither” motion to stimulate the G-spot.
    • Communicate with your partner to find the right level of pressure and rhythm.
  3. Combination techniques:
    • Combine clitoral and G-spot stimulation simultaneously for enhanced pleasure.
    • Use your tongue on the clitoris while using your fingers inside the vagina.
    • Vary the techniques to keep the sensations exciting.
  4. Licking and kissing:
    • Lick the labia and the area around the clitoris with broad, flat strokes.
    • Use your lips to kiss and suck gently on the outer and inner labia.
  5. Fingering:
    • Use your fingers to penetrate gently while continuing oral stimulation.
    • Explore different depths and angles based on your partner’s comfort and feedback.
  6. Pay attention to the entire area:
    • Don’t focus solely on the clitoris; explore the entire genital area, including the inner thighs and perineum.
    • Use your hands and mouth to stimulate different erogenous zones.
  7. Teasing and edging:
    • Build anticipation by alternating between intense stimulation and gentler, teasing touches.
    • Edge your partner by bringing them close to orgasm and then slowing down to prolong the experience.
  8. Be responsive and communicative:
    • Continuously check in with your partner for feedback on what feels best.
    • Encourage open communication to create a comfortable and pleasurable experience for both partners.